Add tlsenum package and add version/cipher enumeration into the checker

tlsenum package probes a remote endpoint with one ClientHello
per (version, cipher) pair via utls, so the checker can report the
exact set the server accepts rather than only the suite Go's stdlib
happens to negotiate. Probe accepts an Upgrader callback so STARTTLS
dialects plug in without tlsenum learning about them; the checker
bridges its existing dialect registry through upgraderFor.

checker/starttls_ldap.go

@@ -52,7 +52,10 @@ func starttlsLDAP(conn net.Conn, sni string) error {
 	if err != nil {
 		return fmt.Errorf("read response length: %w", err)
 	}
-	if length <= 0 || length > 4096 {
+	// 16 KiB comfortably accommodates an ExtendedResponse with a verbose
+	// diagnosticMessage while still bounding memory against a hostile peer.
+	const maxLDAPResponseBytes = 16 * 1024
+	if length <= 0 || length > maxLDAPResponseBytes {
 		return fmt.Errorf("unreasonable LDAP response length %d", length)
 	}
 	body := make([]byte, length)