Extract querySiblings from observeCoexistence so both CNAME and DNAME
coexistence checks share the same parallel RRset scan. Add
observeDNAMECoexistence (called from Collect) that populates
AliasData.DNAMECoexistence for each DNAME node in DNAMESubstitutions.
Add the dname_coexistence rule (RFC 6672 §2.3) that flags any sibling
RRsets at a DNAME owner as CRIT, with matching tests.
